Ron is depressed. He can admit it, but he really has no idea how depressed he is. I know it's normal after bypass surgery. I'm not sure it's just the heart surgery. When you've spent the last 4 years entangled in health issues, sometimes, I just want to say ENOUGH! I guess I'm depressed as well. Coming home everyday to someone who spends the day planted on the sofa in the same clothes you saw him in yesterday.........well, is depressing. I do everything for him, and he can't seem to do much of anything for himself.
Bad with the good - or good with the bad - it's all a toss up.